THANKS ALLOT LesMoss i never thought that would make any difference but after two hour wasting time installing / Uninstalling drivers i thought what the heck lets give it a try and to my surprise it worked, after i power cycle my NUC (inside i have an Intel AC-7260) it suddenly loaded up the "Microsoft Bluetooth Enumerator" thing under the Device manager --> Bluetooth Radios and my Bluetooth loaded fine (in taskmanager i didnt see any bluetooth icon before the power cycle and somehow bluetooth wasn't fully started since i never got BT ID or anyting in device manger)
I cant believe something this important isnt in the installation guide!!!! Intel should really point out these things !